For the past one month.. My blog traffic has been increasing very much.. it was like more than double my normal traffic.. and I know the reason behind.. and I guess you know the reason why too.

This is going to be very wordy blog post.. and I began to think like.. if anyone will read this.. cos if I were one of the readers, I probably will just click X in the red box if I see a blog post like that

Anyways.. Just to keep this blog alive before I spam you all with tons of nice photos with the happenings in Kuching especially the Winning Wine Launching at Grand Margherita, Ramadhan Macam Macam Ada Buka Puasa Buffet at Grand Margherita and also at Riverside Majestic. I’ve been feeding myself and being fed by nice people so well, I’ve gained so much weight especially on my face and also my tummy.

No.. this topic is not entirely about myself..

Yes.. I know you’ll be bored.

Maybe.. I’ll include some photos before I click “Publish”

No.. this is not a paid post.

Yes.. It looks like one..

Maybe.. I should just continue with this blog post

After many years of being together, do you think a couple can actually get married and live happily ever after?

YES - Everyone thinks so. They look stable and yes, they’re going to get married anytime they wanted to.. It’s just the matter of money and time.

NO - They’ve been together for long but the problems have been there for as long as they’ve been together.. They’re going to break up and live with their own lives. They need to struggle.. They need to face many things which outsiders might not know cos they’re not them.

Stop asking yourself questions.. Stop calling friends to ask what is wrong with me..

Yes.. I’m sure I’m okay.. So, continue reading and stop wandering ok?

No.. I’m not asking for proposals from anyone.. Stop wandering can?

(1) They got married
– People will go to them.. congratulate them for being officially attached to each other. No.. Getting married is not about two persons.

– When they’re being together as bf/gf .. People will ask when are they getting married.

– When they got married.. People will be very caring asking them, when are they going to give birth to their first child

– When the first child is born, they’ll be asked, when is the 2nd / 3rd / 4th one coming?

– When they’ve decided to “stop production”, they’ll be questioned why wanna stop? They’re still young, etc etc.

– When the couple decided to have “two people’s world”, will only have kids when they think it’s time.. People will have thoughts that one of them must have some problem that they couldn’t have child..

Waaaaahh.. You people win lor.. Got married, wanna ask.. Once married, still wanna ask.. When got kids, still wanna “care”.. When don’t feel like having kids first.. They’ll be gossips.. Weii.. why like that one??

(2) They broke up
– People will go to them too.. Confront them.. asked them.. what is wrong? Why break up? Whose fault? 3rd party?

– Some will be very happy cos they are finally single.

– Some will be very surprised cos they look like they’ll be getting married.

– Some will be extremely caring, they start to go around asking and talking about this topic just because of something that has no connection with them.

– Some will be very sorry to hear that cos it was really unpredictable.

– Some will just keep quiet and not commenting about it.

(3) New Life
– The married ones will have their own families (Happily ever after)

– The break-up ones will have their own new single lives (searching for new partner in life)

– So once they got their new partner in life.. There human nature goes again.. People start comparing, commenting on their new lives.

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If you’re one of the (1) and (2) .. What do you expect people to do? I know gossiping is part of our lives. But to be in their shoes, how would you like to be treated?

I’ve been wanted to share this many many times.. But never got the chance to.. Now.. It’s time to click X button on top